Last night was the first time I ever laid my hands on my little son Zian Seth and I regret it, but I explained to him why there is a need for spanking. (he is only 2 years old)
Zian Seth: Lord Jesus!
(hurriedly went to his dad so he can listen to Zian Seth's new words and vocab)
Me: What did you say anak?
Zian Seth: P_TA!
Me: (pahiya mode pero gulat to the max) Where did you learn that? (too late to control my hand)
Zian Seth: P_TA!
lecture to the max ang peg ng shocked na ina..... he repeatedly showered me with kisses to appease my frustration but I explained that I love him but that I didn't like what he said...
After taking his warm bath..
Me: Wear your pajamas na..
Zian Seth: kalain!.... (with talikod effect) and murmured P_TA twice!!!!
Me: ANO? ano sinabi mo?
Zian Seth: clapping his hands and said " Lord Jesus!".
*tumbling ako dun"
Zian Seth:B _TO
Me: ano nanaman yan?
Zian Seth: ToTo
Me: humay gulay.. sino sino kalaro mo???
Zian Seth: PINGOY!
Me: Aysus.. Dodo Pingoy pala.. kala ko kung ano naaaaaaaaaaaaa..
(may election jingle LSS ata si Zian Seth--di maka move on)
Parenting at its best:-)
Why I spanked him?
Proverbs 23:13 New Living Translation (©2007)
Don't fail to discipline your children. They won't die if you spank them.
my hubby Christian said --"he is so much like you.. every inch.. hahaha:-P".
Thursday, June 6, 2013
Thursday, May 9, 2013
Period of Adjustment
There is no such thing as perfect person more so, perfect marriage. I knew this even before I got married. A lot of those who are close to me said that after I say "I do", the adjustment period begins. It's no use comparing who we are and what we do for each other before we tied the knot.
What I am currently experiencing is heartbreaking, difficult and at times nerve wracking. I normally say to myself, this too shall pass.
Today, is one of those days that I entertain negative thoughts about my condition. I was hungry and it's nearly pass lunch time. I called my better whole to check what is in for lunch and he said the "usual". I then requested if he can let one house help bring the food over to my work place or instead he'll deliver some meal from fast food chain personally.
I used the sweetest tone I have only to hear "Hanap ka na lang jan sa tabi-tabi", to which I replied "I don't have money".
He then told me to borrow from my work mates which hurt me all the more.
He used to bring me food, cook delicious meals and even wait to give me ride home. But these were during our boyfriend/girlfriend days.
I shed a couple of tears.
Lately, I am being extra sweet but most of the time i feel rejected.
Just like last night, I asked him to sleep beside me or to hug me first before going to sleep but he chose to sleep on the floor. I don't know what is wrong with him, or is it with me? I once asked him, why don't we sleep together anymore? He said it's too hot.
(buti di naging Hot --UMINIT-- ang ulo ko)!
If this is part of this so called -adjustment period, then i do hope that we will become better couple after this.
I need to widen and deepen my understanding and love unconditionally and most of all dapat no expectations.
Image Source: http://www.aarongifford.com/alice/reprints/adjustment.html
What I am currently experiencing is heartbreaking, difficult and at times nerve wracking. I normally say to myself, this too shall pass.
Today, is one of those days that I entertain negative thoughts about my condition. I was hungry and it's nearly pass lunch time. I called my better whole to check what is in for lunch and he said the "usual". I then requested if he can let one house help bring the food over to my work place or instead he'll deliver some meal from fast food chain personally.
I used the sweetest tone I have only to hear "Hanap ka na lang jan sa tabi-tabi", to which I replied "I don't have money".
He then told me to borrow from my work mates which hurt me all the more.
He used to bring me food, cook delicious meals and even wait to give me ride home. But these were during our boyfriend/girlfriend days.
I shed a couple of tears.
Lately, I am being extra sweet but most of the time i feel rejected.
Just like last night, I asked him to sleep beside me or to hug me first before going to sleep but he chose to sleep on the floor. I don't know what is wrong with him, or is it with me? I once asked him, why don't we sleep together anymore? He said it's too hot.
(buti di naging Hot --UMINIT-- ang ulo ko)!
If this is part of this so called -adjustment period, then i do hope that we will become better couple after this.
I need to widen and deepen my understanding and love unconditionally and most of all dapat no expectations.
Image Source: http://www.aarongifford.com/alice/reprints/adjustment.html
Thursday, May 2, 2013
One Friend Less
I am deeply saddened by your death. You are such a genuine and sincere friend. At 28, you have so much to accomplish, dreams to fulfill and desires to achieve. Such a young heart yet a brave soul. You once told me how you managed to finish your college degree. When your dad passed away, and lately your mom and now... you of all people. May the good Lord console the ones left behind. Your passing is such a tremendous loss for us -- for me. Goodbye my dear friend.. Perhaps it is the Lord's will for you to have eternal light and peace. .. till then Yan Yan!
Monday, April 29, 2013
Backseat
I took a backseat from writing about my hullabaloo. I was totally consumed of mother-and-wife duties that I was not able to update my site. A lot has happened, including the indescribable feeling of happiness and joy towards my little son to the unfamiliar territory of marital obligations. Nakakabuang! Now that I am back on track, I hope I can post about just anything whenever I am free.
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